This morning as I was getting to the subway the digital arrival board said the next train would be arriving in 4 minutes. As I got about half way down the steps, I realized that there was actually a train in the station that I was about to miss. No big deal, the board said the next train would be arriving in 4 minutes. Except when I actually got into the station, the 3 digital boards all displayed different arrival times for 2 different trains. None of which matched the outside board. So which one to believe?
Ultimately, it didn't matter which was right because none of the wait times were so long that I would've considered an alternate route. So I did what I would've have done any other morning: I stood there and waited.
The only difference is that I was upset this morning. I was mad because the stupid board told me there would be a train in 4 minutes. Then the subsequent boards played with my emotions by saying it could be as long as 7 minutes or as short as 1 minute. I would've been better off if all of the digital boards were turned off (which has happened before). That way I wouldn't have had any expectations and I would've just waited.
That's what I used to do before station improvements that included digital arrival boards. It was the good ol' days of playing subway roulette: you get to the station and hope to god you won't be waiting longer than 5-10 minutes.
Now I'd be lying if I said I wasn't impressed when I saw the arrival boards at my local station. It would no longer be a guessing game, I would know exactly when the train was going to arrive.
Here's the thing though, on average I still wait the same 5-10 minutes. There are those lucky times when I get there and the boards say "1 min" and I feel great about myself (as though I had anything to do with it). Then there are mornings like today when the boards are just completely wrong. It really screws up the whole commute.
The arrival boards took a situation where I would've been content with just waiting it out and literally added a time expectation to it. The problem with the time expectation is that I have no control over it. There's nothing I can do except wait. Now my mood gets affected by this thing I can't control.
Now I'm only telling you about this because this is what I see a lot of people do when it comes to their fitness. They want to know how long it will take to see results. The general answer is probably in the neighborhood of 4-6 weeks. If I tell you less than that you'll get excited but those results probably won't last. If I tell you more than that you'll want shortcuts to make it go faster.
The fact is most of us would be better off just worrying about the things that we can control. Things like making better food choices, being more active and getting more sleep. After that it's about making sure you're continually making progress.
